November 3, 2005

Water, water everywhere...

....but not a drop to drink. True. My kitchen has been dry for two days now. The bathroom's not much better; Turned on the shower yesterday morning and had to wait five minutes while rust and particulates cleared out of the pipes.

Ew.

I know this sounds ungrateful and whiny when there's an entire coast of America - just for starters - that was recently underwater. But everything's relative, and I'd like it to stop raining now, thanks.

I also did another Less Nessman update, because I was bored and because I wanted to check out the new toy Karl Gave me. I also backedited so that when you clicked on links they went to the place that drove the text as opposed to some random crap.

I discovered two things: firstly, that it's really hard to trim prose down to a mere hundred words, and that alone is a good excercise. Secondly, I learned that contractions are my friend.

Off to work now.

I've updated this entry: the little passages don't make sense unless you know what prompted them. this is Today's 100 word challenge, and my attempt is in the extended entry section. You have been warned.
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In the darkness I heard Carol whisper: "Holy shit, Gil, they've got all communications. Everything!. We are so fucked."

I stayed quiet, practiced looking stupid. I didn't know if it'd work anyway; didn't know if they checked all outgoing vehicles with the same scrutiny; or what else the truck would pick up on the way, When it would get there, didn't even know if he'd be on shift when it did.

But I'd gotten Donny that job at the recycling depot two days before I came on site. The most Anal retentive little fucker I knew. I couldn't lose hope.

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June 23, 2005

Even more poetry

She thrust herself at life, a honey bee
Thorax deep in each quivering corolla
Flew pollen spangled each day back to the hive

she was willing, too, to go with what might happen
like seeds of roadside grass on fortune's scarf -
borne off to be sown elsewhere, and grow new.

Posted by daruma at 1:32 PM

More Poetry

There is the unknown music of the willow


purest of all trees

break it's branch apart
& there is is
From whence you came

Posted by daruma at 1:28 PM

Poetry in translation: Li Po

In Han the Han moon was her companion
One night it clung to her, it's shadow grew long and thin
The next morning she was gone.

That night the Han moon Pierced the sky.
In a strange, far off city, a western moon rises
on a bride's bolted shutters.
In that place, they say, the flowers are made of snow.

They buried her in thte sand.
I remember her eyebrows. Who does not?
As for our lives? We've no portrait painter to blame.
Her tomb is a green blip in thte western desert. The wind howls.
You would too if you were there.

Posted by daruma at 9:14 AM

May 21, 2005

Time for something different.

This is a transcript from a conversation with a.... uh.... A very good friend of mine, from a couple of weeks ago. Pretty much everyone reading this will know who I'm talking about instantly. Enjoy.

Trixie: ...hi....
Buck: .....hi...... looks kinda hot in print for some reason.
Trixie: can you see the feet in little mary janes twisting nervously?
Trixie: --that wasn't a very good description
Buck: looked ok to me
Buck: keep going
Trixie: the fingers laced together making a fist in front of her,
arms crossing over each other, interweaving,
Trixie: or maybe she's chewing on the end of one pigtail nervously
Buck: Yes? is there something you would like?
Trixie: ...n...no...
Trixie: I just thought...uh...
Buck: what were you thinking?
Trixie: I'm all embarassed now
Buck: Have you been a bad little girl?
Trixie: no! I'm very good!...mostly.
Trixie: ...um, I guess it was sorta bad,
Trixie: what I did the other day.
Buck: oh??
Trixie: I was taking a shower after gym class
Trixie: in the girls locker room
Trixie: and Christina was showering at the same time
Buck: mmhmm
Trixie: and she seemed to be taking a long time to wash herself...you
know...down there
Buck: I see.
Trixie: her eyes were closed--I don't think she even realized what
she was doing and that I was watching
Trixie: and somehow watching her gave me this funny feeling down
there--like it was all warm, and it needed to be touched
Trixie: so I started pretending to wash myself there too
Trixie: but I couldn't take my eyes off Christina
Trixie: and somehow my breasts started feeling heavy and warm too
Trixie: so I started stroking and massaging them
Trixie: and I guess I must have made a little noise--a gasp or something
Trixie: because she finally opened her eyes and froze, and I could
see that she had a finger right up inside herself
Trixie: I froze too, hoping at first that she'd think I was really
just washing myself still but then it just felt so good, and maybe I
wanted her to know how good it felt, so I kept on looking at her as I
started squeezing my breasts again
Trixie: and something in her eyes softened and a little moan escaped her
Buck: You bad little girl. What did she do then?
Trixie: well, we kept on looking each other in the eyes as we stroked
ourselves. She was doing something that must have felt really good,
because her breath started coming in these little pants and I could
see her fingernails, on the hand that wasn't busy between her legs,
leaving red marks on her thigh and at last she threw her head back and
started whispering "oh my god" and trembling all over, and I could
tell that it was only because she was so scared of someone hearing her
that she wasn't screaming
Trixie: and I asked her, "what happened? are you okay?"--I was kinda
scared: I wasn't sure if she'd maybe hurt herself or something
Trixie: and she said, "Don't you know?"
Trixie: "Know what?"
Trixie: "I just had an orgasm"
Trixie: "An orgasm? What's that?"
Trixie: "...you really don't know, do you? I guess I'll just have to show you."
Trixie: and she came over to me and kissed me
Buck: mmhmm. and what did you do then?
Trixie: I was still under the shower. Warm water was falling all
around the two of us, making the air feel that much colder, making my
nipples stand up in hard little spikes
Trixie: --at least, I think it must have been the cold air that was
makign them hard
Trixie: I didn't quite know what to do when she started kissing me.
I'd never kissed anyone before, and I thought it was just something
girls and boys did together...and that never much appealed to me. The
boys in our class are rough and grubby and they brag and snicker about
girls who let them kiss them so I thought kissing was humilitating and
gross and a nasty prank that boys play on girls but somehow when her
lips started pressing to mine...they felt like honey would feel if it
were a feeling instead of a taste...so soft, so smooth, so wet with
the water of the shower
Trixie: she was pressing her lips against mine and it felt good, and
then her lips were parting and I could tell she wanted me to open my
mouth to her, so I did,
Trixie: and her tongue started dancing around my lips and even
entering my mouth
Trixie: --was that bad?
Buck: very bad. were your nipples still hard?
Trixie: very hard
Trixie: and just the kissing was making me light-headed, but when she
moved a hand to my breast, I thought I'd pass out
Trixie: I stumbled a bit, and she pushed me up against the wall for
support and I was a little frightened by the predatory look in her eye
Trixie: she looked like she was hungry for me, like she was going to devour me
Trixie: and for a moment I thought about telling her to stop, or
walking away, fighting her off if I had to,
Trixie: but then I knew I didn't want her to stop
Trixie: I wanted her to devour me; I wanted her to posess me.
Trixie: I didn't know what she was going to do, but I knew I wanted
her to do it.
Trixie: so I'm pressed up against the wall, she's still kissing me
and stroking my breast, but a bit more gently now: giving me time to
catch my breath
Trixie: and I'm tasting her tongue in my mouth
Trixie: it tasted like rain
Trixie: and I find my hands twitching with the desire to touch her body
Trixie: I don't know if that's allowed, but finally I do move them to
her slender waist and they settle there like they've finally come home
Trixie: and then they start sliding up her slick torso and touch her breasts
Trixie: they're a bit fuller than mine--I barely have to wear a bra
at all--and the weight of them as they fill my hands makes my mouth
water.
Trixie: I start kissing my way down towards them--down the graceful
curve of her neck, over her collarbone--how did I never notice how
sexy the hollows around a collarbone are? and finally I'm tasting the
lush curve of her breast, sucking her nipple into my mouth
Trixie: and she's gasping and clutching at me
Trixie: and I think that means she likes it so I suck harder
Trixie: I even try biting a little bit. I don't know why I did that.
It's not like I wanted to hurt her, but the flesh of her breast just
tasted so good
Trixie: and my hands won't stop moving over her body
Trixie: I realize that this was what I'd always wanted: another
girl's firm ass to hold
Trixie: to caress
Trixie: to explore
Buck: (put your hands here between my legs while you're telling me
this. Do you feel that hard lump? you're going to find out what that's
for, later)
Trixie: ...um...okay...
Trixie: should I keep talking?
Buck: oh yes. go on
Buck: tell me what you did next
Trixie: Christina gave herself a little shake, like she'd let herself
get sidetracked and was focussing once more on the task at hand
Trixie: and she started kissing me again with renewed fervour
Trixie: (fervour. isn't that a good word? we learned that in english
class just the other day.)
Trixie: and one of her hands went directly to that place between my legs
Trixie: and she started rubbing me there
Trixie: and her finger against me felt so slippery
Trixie: I could tell it wasn't just water that was making me wet down there
Buck: (it is a good word. move your hands up and down like you did on
Christina's ass while you tell me what happenned next. like that. now
go on...)
Trixie: like this? ooh, I just felt something twitch. did I hurt you?
Buck: no, that's alright, tell me about christina.
Trixie: Christina was touching me between my legs and making me want to squirm
Trixie: I'm squirming a littlte just remembering it
Buck: does it make you wet again down there?
Trixie: ...um...yes, it does....
Buck: lift up your skirt so I can see.
Trixie: ...um...o...okay
Buck: that's very good. Tell me, did she touch you here?
Trixie: um, ooh.
Trixie: oh my
Buck: did she move her fingers along you like this, backwards and forwards?
Trixie: ...ooh...
Trixie: yes, that's how she started out
Trixie: kind of
Buck: okay, but she didn't have these panties in the way did she?
Trixie: no
Buck: no.
Trixie: and so it was easy for her to slip a finger inside me
Buck: You have to show me properly, Trixie.
Trixie: do I?
Buck: yes.
Buck: You know what you have to do.
Trixie: okay. I'll take these panties off.
Buck: that's better. Now her finger is sliding on you like this....
Trixie: mmm. this is how she started touching me--her fingers parting
my lips gently and rubbing and making me feel like fields of
butterflies were taking off in my tummy
Buck: and then what did she do?
Trixie: and when her finger had gotten really wet, she started
putting it up inside me
Trixie: and with her thumb she was rubbing something up towards the
front of...of my....
Trixie: and I don't know why, but that felt REALLY good
Buck: was it here?
Trixie: ooh...
Trixie: oh yes
Trixie: and I was pushing against her hand
Trixie: and I felt like I wanted to push harder and harder
Buck: like this? did she rub it like this? in little circles?
Trixie: mmm....yes...at first
Trixie: and then she started rubbing harder as I started pushing
against her harder
Trixie: and then...
Trixie: it was like an explosion inside me and I could feel little
muscles inside me grabbing onto her fingers
Trixie: and I'm sure that if I hadn't already been leaning against
the wall, I would have fallen over.
Trixie: she held me up, put her arms around me until I stopped
shuddering and gasping
Trixie: and it was so sweet to have her breasts pressed against mine,
her cheek leaning against mine, her fingers still buried inside me,
coated in my wetness
Trixie: and I wanted to stay like that forever.


This is the same friend who mailed me a bunch of lunches from across the continent around New Years just as a random act of kindness. I'll never forget it. As friends go, I think about her pretty much every half hour or so. She tends to have that effect on people. You can sorta see why.

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April 25, 2005

Echoes.

Warning: this is very long.

They head out on a lazy day in June, fresh out of school for the summer, adventurers exploring strange new worlds, boldly going where no man has gone before - most often because man isn't allowed there, but this is Yorkshire and farmers will forgive a few high spirits in young lads as long as no lasting damage is done. Their names are Peter, Herb, and Frank. Herb and Frank are a year or two older than Pete, hitting puberty early but still not quite as fast or as strong or as large. He's the odd man out in another way, two, because his religion dictates that he goes to a different school and bothe separates them and also allows them to exist together where peer pressure might have otherwise driven them into very separate camps. Pete is the explorer and today he is taking them to inspect one of his finds, He is taking them to the reservoir domes a good six or seven miles outside the fields and quarry they normally roam, because there is something he wants them to see.

You can come along with them too, for the ride.

come, see.

You walk so far to get there that the old horizon dissapears and is replaced by an entirely new one. This by itself is new to Pete and he is still pondering it's meaning for him, the strange thrill it brings him to see something appear in his worldview that was not accessible or to be guessed at when he began. The journey is somewhat tiring, and it is hot, and there are flies and wasps and other annoyances; these are details. Even starting early and not stopping to eat, the sun is high in the sky when the boys come to the dell in the eath before the reservoir.

Pause to take in this view for a moment. On the horizon are six brilliant white domes, clean and technical and slightly forbidding but also emphatic reassurance. They represent a kind of order, an authority. Close to hand the place we have come to visit brings to mind something out of T.S.Elliott's wastelands. Ganga was sunken, and the limp leaves waited for rain, while the black clouds gathered far distant, over himavant.... Ganga is a small dell in the earth containing few plants that would bear leaves at all, a discarded shopping trolley, a few shredded and obviously burned tires, and a number of rusting aerosol paint cans. The latter have been used to paint roughly five or six pentacles in black and red over the stone surfaces that line the dell, along with the number 666, the quote "do as thou wilt shall be the whole of the law", and a few of the more mundane delinquent messages. at the back of the dell is a yawning black pit, a wound in the earth that seems to leak festering antipathy into the air around it. Even from this distance it makes you feel uncomfortable, but it is also fascinating, and so.

This is our destination.

Inside the cave summer recedes into a back pocket of your mind, something you know is there but don't have any use for right now. It's cold, surprisingly cold after the long walk here; the sweat dries on your sunburned skin, making you shiver involuntarily, and you are suddenly aware of your hair hanging damp against your forehead, your Tshirt way too thin and sticking to you now like flypaper, meaning you're the fly.

The darkness seems to swallow sounds whole, takes them and carries them away into its other-world. None of the boys have brought a torch, either because they lacked the attention span or the imagination or the means depending on who we choose to ask. They are standing approximately some fifteen or twenty feet inside the entrance, hands in pockets, facing into the dark together as they shuffle their feet. Herb is looking around at some of the graffitti still, possibly noticing the smashed bottles by the wall, sharp green tinted glass twinkling in the last reflected light of the entrance. He might be looking at used condoms as well, but it's unlikely. People fuck in graveyards, sure, but even graveyards have a little starlight, some reference point for your own youth and strength and lust. No one ever so much as felt their pants stir in here. Surprisingly, He won't see any used needles either, but this is not quite even the 80's and rural England has yet to really work at cultivating it's drug problem.

Frank keeps his thoughts to himself, if he has any. He's holding a few stones in his hand, picked up from the general debris, which he's weighing in his hand. His face looks slightly angry, as if he's frowing at something, and the scars over the bridge of his nose would seem to flare a little if it wasn't so dark. He Glances over at Pete, who he can just make out in the darkness, crouching slightly with uncertainty, fixated on the back wall of the cave which is completely invisible and might for all any of them know be a kilometre back, or in some other city, or China.

"There's something back there. It's a well, or a hole, or....something. It's back there. In the back of the cave. Can you see?"

Everyone senses it, everyone looks. It's not like it's easy to ignore, really. Frank's voice is poised somewhere between surly and deliberately obtuse as he edges forward. "Where is it, then?" he weighs a half brick in one large, calloused hand.

"I don't know. Back there."

"Hnn." The two of them edge a little closer, pushing their luck. Frank's voice is sinking into the cave and Peter has to strain slightly to hear it. "Think I can see it" he adds, and suddenly lobs his brick headlong into the darkness.

This is their ritual. They do this pretty much every time, Sacrifice some heavy, physical inert object to the back of the cave, they will do this again when they return to the source of their horrific fascination. Seconds later comes the first harsh cracking retort as the brick hits what is possibly the back wall of the cave; then comes another, and another, and another still fainter. Each dull echo is somehow more terrible than the last. Peter counts silently under his breath: "four, five...six...." It's not that they stop at this point, it's that the seventh is too faint to be sure of, that the probe is lost in depth beyond this away team's crude instrumentation. Somewhere impenetrable.

That doesn't mean to say that the cave doesn't speak back, that the pit doesn't call to each of them in it's own way. The silence speaks volumes all on its' own, insidious in the cold oppressive dankness that presses insistently from all sides. It claws at them by this point, and all these boys are used to silence in their own way; Hours at a time lying on the roof of the grid station, looking for satellites or aliens, never once speaking; alone in a dusty room, desks all cleared, engaged in a contest of wills with the Crow figure scratching at the far end of the room by the blackboard; nothing prepares them for this creeping oily congealed silence that lives on the smell of mold and stagnant things and black dust, that crawls up and down your salt caked drying skin and seems to get under it and into you until you're convinced that if you stay there much longer your mouth will be forced open and something eyeless and twisted and covered in slime will crawl right out of it.

No one really wants to stay in there, not now, not after the incident with the brick. Herb and Frank toss a few more stones anyway with typical older boy bravado, but it feels literally as though some modern day equivalent of Tolkien's Balrog has been awakened, has indeed climbed out and into the enclosed space and like some patient spider is hungrily eating away at their souls. It's really just a matter of who will bolt first, and with how much dignity.

In the sunlight, warming up again, Herb recounts cheerfully that he heard that there was a pagan coven that performed satanic rituals here. Once, he adds for emphasis, they stabbed a cat and threw it down into the pit. You could hear it screaming all the way down and then suddenly it just stopped, suddenly, without any kind of a thud or any noise at all. They next day it walked out and didn't have a single scratch on it and now it's a wild stray that wanders around here sometimes. It never makes any sound anymore.

Despite the fact that Pete found the cave and led the other boys to it he somehow completely falls for this story, is skeptical of possible interpretations but does not for a second doubt the facts of the case. Frank goes to school with Herb and knows a little better, but it fits so well with their own experiences that the story becomes part of official canon anyway, it's understood to represent the generalised wrongness that has clotted there. It becomes a metaphysical link in some dark nexus that binds them to this day, this time, and this cave.

Because they return. Everyone returns, alone or together, in the summer and at the turning of the year when the leaves have fallen and the grass crunches like broken glass under their trainers as they negotiate their way back through the no man's lands of fenced off gulleys and streams and people's back gardens. Because something pulls them. Some sick fascination drives them to behold again the debris pit and the abandoned rusting cans of aerosol paint, the lurid spectacle of pentacles and profane graffiti, sexual innuendo and scatalogical and occult reference, something drags them back again and again to hear the ugly echo of that abandoned place.

We can hear it, now. It's still there. Come with me. Come, see.

From outside the cave, it is easy to forget what it is like within. The warmth of the sunlight on your face is such a different sensation that it's possible to pretend that nothing's really in there, and it's difficult to understand what it is that draws you back, again and again. You can hear the voices in the cave, you hear them more and more clearly each time you come, but you don't remember them when you leave, you never can recall what it was about them that made you feel the way you did. At dusk one time you might hear the cat, inside, and feel the crawling dislocated fear of the supernatural that will assail both Frank and Pete some other day, though it will be years before they discuss it with each other.

There are other things to hear, though, other echoes in the cave that are less contentious. There are things more real. For those we have to go inside, we have to look within the hole where Frank's half brick continues to fall. Come inside.

Here is Father Edwards, Parish priest in Highgate, population maybe three hundred, Writing an empty sermon that he's crossed out at least twenty times because he does not know where to find compassion in the deaths of thirty children in a traffic accident. Here he is hearing the confession of beautiful beautiful Mellisa Bolton with tears streaming down his face as his nails dig into the palm of his hand until it bleeds. kneeling before the altar of the blessed sacrament and looking up while the thought that all these twenty years he has been talking to himself slowly rips his mind apart at the seams. In the darkness he looks up at the moonlight through the stained glass of the nave and it seems to him to be receding. He wants to ask it for a sign, for just the barest assurance that something out there hears him, but he dare not open his mouth. The silence carries.

Here on a Friday night is Frank's taxi cab, inherited from his dead father some years back, carefully cleaned each saturday morning until most of the smell of stale beer and cigarrette smoke and occasional vomit can no longer offend his family as he drives his kids to the pool. The night's take so far is barely Seventy quid and he's forced to drive into the red light district where he knows he's likely to find work taking tricks to and from their place of work. It's nearly one AM and he promised Mary he'd be home by midnight, but he needs at least two hundred or else the bank is going to repossess their home. Looking into the shadows of a doorway, he is thinking of his wife, of the bank, he is trying to think of a single thing he going to say to either of them.

The silence

Carries

Pete the crazy homeless guy pushes his shopping cart underneath the second narrows bridge as a gang of street youths come upon him with chains and knuckle dusters. "What you got there Grandad? huh? what's in your trolley, then, huh?" He's tired, he hasn't eaten in three days and he needs some meth to take the edge off, to help him stay awake so the cold won't be so bad, these kids look so much bigger than him now and he hates them about half as much as he fears them. He tries to ignore them, to shut them out, to make them go away. In a minute they will hurt him and that, too, will add to the empty voices, to the sounds that are not sounds. Herbert will echo from the interrogation room of a london police station where Detective Inspector Travis has just asked him where he was when the fire started in the warehouse at keith avenue and how he managed to get so much soot on his hands. He will echo again from the factory where he welds steel plates together with a carbon welder that burns his hands through asbestos gloves and leaves him exhausted to the point where his mute anger and pain and tiredness literally cannot find expression because his throat hurts too much to speak.

Peter again, this time standing on the platform of the Amtrak station in Chicago as a great metal worm eats it's way along the track towards him and he's been working on a rendering algorithm for a new game for about four days straight now, his girlfriend cannot stand the insane hours he's working and she's started sleeping with another guy she met at some art show and he's going back to an empty sterile appartment where he will sleep for maybe six hours before returning to work. He is thinking of stepping into the path of the oncoming train. How many ways are there to die?

If you listen closely, you can hear the voices screaming at you in the dark. You're in here too. Here is your parent's grave, you are kneeling in the rain as they lower the coffin into the dirt. Here is their empty house that you live in so that their abscence may continue to accuse you of nonspecific failings. Here is your office in the University with it's pristine walls and a pile of papers that contradict everything you've written for the last five years and you are failrly certain that they are right. Here is your one room basement appartment in the east end of town that you come back to after a sixteen hour day fixing meals for fat old men who ogle you with rheumy eyes, it smells of hair and catpiss and you've been asking the landlord to do something about the mold on the ceiling for three weeks but you're too tired to press any harder and you cannot possibly afford the time off work to look for a new place.

Here is your broken and wasted reflection in the mirror at 4am, face swollen and blotchy and your hair torn out of it's sockets, your eyes raw from all the tears forced out through them as you scream and scream into your pillow, stripped of all the beauty of youth and the comfort of friends and forced up against the cold sharp edges of your very worst self. It's more than just your reflection, it's you, you as fate might make you, You as your own shadow waiting to happen one day, looking back and seeing yourself. And hating it, hating everything you have that was taken away from it. Hating you. It hates you.

Hates you.

And there's nothing left for it do but wait, there.

It's not alone. It's never alone. They are all together down there at the bottom, pooled, they can outlast you easily and will. How many ways are there to lose? All it takes is one bad day. Do you know your breaking point? would you like to see what happens when you get pushed too far? Where it is you fall?

Come. Hear the echoes.

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April 13, 2005

This was cheating.

it somehow cheapens the whole idea of a weblog to write something and then go back and edit it. It's fucktarded. I will never do it again. My only excuse this time is that I want to remember yesterday's moment for a while, and since I'm writing this tomorrow, I wanted to make sure the dates were a little closer.

Anyway. So, the thing is, I lost my wedding ring on the skytrain last night.

It comes as a surprise to most people to know that I was ever married. Shit, It surprises me a little, now. I can look back and imagine my wedding day as though it were yesterday (and not the decade ago it, in fact, was) but the guy at the centre of it all, strip mining his new Bride's tonsils, for some reason that guy can't possibly be me.

I mean, I recognize him. I recognize the bleached and ripped jeans, held together with safety pins along one seam and decorated with demented 4am scribblings, the jeans he had planned to graduate in. I recognize the T-shirt, one of only five ever printed, hand drawn by a friend; a skull, screaming, the tendons ripped away from the bone and revealing a Pandora's box of seedy images, the logo beneath: "do you mind?". Man that was a great shirt. I recognize the ritually torn oxford white worn over it, flapping in the spray from the rushing creek behind him, I see his blood red brogues and I think "yep, those were good shoes". He has the same friends I know from that time. Physically, he even looks like me. Same oversized feet, same build, same jug like ears that stick out too far, same features, mostly. The smile's a little colder, but that wouldn't really do it, that's not what makes him an alien.

What I really don't recognize anymore are the eyes. I don't recognize that look anymore, I can't see what he sees; more importantly, I now see things he couldn't see, would not see, had no time for. This is both a thing to regret and also a blessing I think, maybe. On that day, that kid in that white T-shirt was moving mountains almost blithely. I'm distracted from my own story just looking at him, because it's fucking scary what I see in that face.

He - this stranger in my face - he'd only proposed three weeks ago. He'd found his best man that morning, picked him up at his false creek home, taken him to get the rings. They came from a shop on Robson street, two simple bands of Jade, carved and polished in front of him from the very same piece of rock. He knew his beloved's ring size from earlier tests, but it was important to do this at the last minute, as close to the event as possible, and he was meticulous about leaving things in a panic state. He liked uncertainty. When the person who was supposed to marry them did not show (it turned out she had had a heart attack) and his wife to be began to fall apart, he didn't blink; he just turned to the phone and got the next one on the list to come out to Lynn Headwaters on a Sunday. Somehow.

It feels surreal, dreamlike now. S. and I were married for nearly two years, and the end of that union is another story but one I'll tell somewhere down the line. When she left I gave her back her own ring, broken, to keep. Mine I wrapped in gauze, which went in a box, with the only other ring I'd ever offerred a woman; that's two down, by the way, and the next time I offer a ring to anyone again will be my very last, whether it's accepted or no.

There are tokens of similar value I kept along with the rings, romantic and otherwise; a music box carried by one late grandfather, a collection of coins from the war carried by another, seeds from a garden where I walked with a friend that wait to be planted, one or two things I am sworn never to share. Right this moment they are scattered over my living room floor awaiting disposal. You see, If I'm really serious about this plan of mine, if I want to ever paint in that other eye of the Daruma doll in 400 days, then I have to let go of all my baggage; it's too heavy for the journey. And I am, very serious. So I've been working out how to dispose of it all before May starts.

I wore the ring around my neck while I went out to teach C, my student in New Westminster. I'm really not sure why. Maybe because there's a jade tear that I'm thinking of wearing there and I wanted to try it out, maybe it was just sentimentality - we're approaching our anniversary - maybe it was just a message on some cosmic radio I was picking up. The necklace it was on broke as I was getting off the train at Braid Skytrain station. I heard something drop and break, I didn't know what it was but the sound was surprisingly loud and clear; it was curiously metallic, ringing. I can still hear it. I'd finished my day and come home again when I noticed that it was gone, and only then did I put two and two together.

I've carried that ring from house to house, while homeless, out of the rubble of a fire once, through thick and thin as they say for over a decade. Ten years that damn thing's been with me. Ten years. Gone.

Isn't that fucking priceless? think of the irony, the strange beauty of it. It's counterpart is long, long gone, a distant memory. S. and I haven't even spoken in over five years. Her ring? surely gone. I was thinking I'd bury mine on a mountaintop, or hurl it into the foaming waters of lynn creak where the dirty deed was done long ago; or into the ocean; something appropriately larger than life out of respect for a time and a place where life could never measure up to the desire in our hearts. But how much more appropriate that it remain broken, lost, shards of it caught in the flotsam of over a million lives a day, shuttling backwards and forwards, struggling from here to get there. How much more fitting that it should choose it's own time and place to have nothing more to do with me. It makes me happy to think of those shards out there, somewhere, returned to that great pool of human experience, part of the ordinary muck of everyday life.

I am smiling as I write, and I feel strangely free. The symbol is gone and the actuality is soon to follow, a formality that must be cleaned up as I set the groundwork for immigrating.

I lost my wedding ring on the skytrain last night. I found a tiny piece of my present. It's a good exchange.

Posted by daruma at 11:05 AM | Comments (4)